@Vyper85 I think he had some undiagnosed mental health problems and I guess in the last few weeks they just became really prominent, and they were fighting about shit. I think he was drinking quite a bit that night as well, but I'm not positive what exactly happened. I believe that the assumption at this point was he didn't know the gun was loaded and was intending to scare her.
As far as work, idk. I doubt I'll actually get fired, nor do I know why they would be trying to force me out. I'm just going to keep doing my thing until I find a new one or something else happens. I think my other boss is pretty upset with the goings on there as well, I've heard him talking about buying a different bar a couple times
There's a French restaurant up the street from me that's about to re-open that wanted me to work there before lockdowns, so I'll probably go talk to him next week when I know what's going on, and I took some extra time off for the funeral so I'll have a couple free days
I don't feel like that would be on the top of their mind, like I'm not eligible for severance or anything and we don't have benefits they would have to give me
Plus I'm confident it's only one of my bosses, the other owner is pretty cool. But I don't think he's the one that has as much control over executive decisions
They aren't cutting my responsibilities or interjecting in my management abilities or anything, it's just stupid shit that comes up. And they don't exactly have people lining up for my job, there's not that many people applying for the positions I hire
All of these things will end happily, they're just stressful. And I still lack many good friends that I can go to, and the ones I can are preoccupied with similar things. Thus general chit chat, cuz for some reason TH and Ghan and Tom all actively keep it up.
Just gotta keep Miss Mazie up through the week until her shock wears off and she realizes that she still has family all around her, and bossman will do whatever he's going to do and I'll respond appropriately when it happens. Thank you all for the support, I do very much appreciate everyone being here for me through the years
I would be careful with jobs in China. They can be hit and miss depending on where in China you go. Places like hong kong / Shengzen / Beijing can be neat. Other places not so much.
I would recommend searching for some first person experiences for the city you got the offer in. Especially now when the political situation in China is deteriorating.