what i meant to write in my rep comment was "Don't have such a negative outlook on life, look beyond the bad things that happen and look forward to the success you and happiness that will be coming into your life. Surely some good things came from the negative points in your life and that's what you gotta look at" before I accidentally hit enter. Your post just sounded really depressing, it may have just been that post, but I hope you don't live your life with a viewpoint like that. :thup:
I do know this - xenforo dropped the ball by not keeping the vbulletin reputation comments as a feature. The loss of the Reputation comments data when we switched to Xenforo really was the death knell for the site when it came to all the users that left. I know I missed it so much and I got way less interested in the site when that feature was gone and I run the site.
I'm on a page about incorrect corrections, and spent the better part of like two hours trying to get someone to understand that -5^2 = -25, not 25, and then that post had comments get reposted because that group is self sustaining, and that person was in turn trying to explain what I just explained to them. And I'm taking that as a victory