Would you rather turn on the lights only to see there are 95320 monsters, aliens, mutants (add on to the list) in your house or turn them off and don't see them ? (although they're still there... )
My father. Both my parents are nice, and I would admitt my mother is a little more nice. Though, me and my father do things, and he is the one who makes all the money. My mother is a stay home mom, so she can take care of the house and all that. But still, we don't do as much together.
I do know this - xenforo dropped the ball by not keeping the vbulletin reputation comments as a feature. The loss of the Reputation comments data when we switched to Xenforo really was the death knell for the site when it came to all the users that left. I know I missed it so much and I got way less interested in the site when that feature was gone and I run the site.