I don't know of any way to remove just Patrol, but you can change the tooltip for things like it, move, and attack near the bottom of Gameplay Interface if you enable UMSWE in NewGen.
they wanted you to remap every order icon, update there UIs and then intercept the "correct" order and re-correct it to the one you wanted, while differentiating between the two - all to save 1 icon location
on top of that, you then needed to create and employ a custom ability learn system
I don't think I'm dealing with quite the same pressures though, at the very least its a significantly smaller system. For the time being I'm just going to put together a quick scrubby box though and hope it works good enough to not make my house toxic
I do know this - xenforo dropped the ball by not keeping the vbulletin reputation comments as a feature. The loss of the Reputation comments data when we switched to Xenforo really was the death knell for the site when it came to all the users that left. I know I missed it so much and I got way less interested in the site when that feature was gone and I run the site.