what i meant to write in my rep comment was "Don't have such a negative outlook on life, look beyond the bad things that happen and look forward to the success you and happiness that will be coming into your life. Surely some good things came from the negative points in your life and that's what you gotta look at" before I accidentally hit enter. Your post just sounded really depressing, it may have just been that post, but I hope you don't live your life with a viewpoint like that. :thup:
I don't think I'm dealing with quite the same pressures though, at the very least its a significantly smaller system. For the time being I'm just going to put together a quick scrubby box though and hope it works good enough to not make my house toxic
I do know this - xenforo dropped the ball by not keeping the vbulletin reputation comments as a feature. The loss of the Reputation comments data when we switched to Xenforo really was the death knell for the site when it came to all the users that left. I know I missed it so much and I got way less interested in the site when that feature was gone and I run the site.